Once upon a time, a little girl, Ina\u00e9e (12 years old), was victim of school bullying. A boy in her class, Eric, had decided that they were \"in a relationship\" and was spreading rumors about Ina\u00e9e's alleged \"sexual performance. The whole class made fun of her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ana\u00efs told her mother who reported it to the school. The supervisors were supposed to watch over her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
One day, at recess, Eric tried to kiss Ina\u00e9e on the mouth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The same day, he pushed her, she fell on the ground and he got on top of her, making movements with his pelvis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The supervisors did not see anything. Ina\u00e9e and one of her friends went to ask them for help, they said: \"we didn't see it, we can't punish him\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Amicable attempt<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ina\u00e9e told her mother, who asked for a meeting with the school administration. The principal promised to \"be careful\". Neither Ina\u00e9e nor her mother were reassured.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The boy's parents were summoned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
One evening, Eric's father went to Ina\u00e9e's mother and said: \"It's a mistake, it wasn't Eric who did it, it was another boy. Ina\u00e9e's mother had a hard time keeping her cool.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Clearly, Eric's parents preferred to bury their heads in the sand rather than face reality and provide support to a boy who clearly needed help and guidance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Legal consultation<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ina\u00e9e was not well. Her mother decided to consult a lawyer and explained the situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The lawyer presented the different procedures: disciplinary procedure with the school, criminal complaint and finally if the school persisted in not fulfilling its obligations, an administrative procedure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
She advised psychological support. Ina\u00e9e already had one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
On the statement of Ina\u00e9e's mother at school, a disciplinary procedure was launched. But the investigation took weeks. In parallel, a criminal complaint was regularized<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Practical advice<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ina\u00e9e's mother said, \"That's all well and good, but how does my daughter deal with it on a daily basis? She is so afraid of this boy that she can't do her homework or go to school. The school doesn't protect her. What can we do?\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sometimes the best solution is to scream (Munch inspiration) and run away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When Eric attacked her, Ina\u00e9e felt completely helpless, unable to react.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
How did it go? She went to practice screaming really loud. She cried, she laughed and she went back to school. But she still wasn't serene (obviously).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ina\u00e9e's mother contacted a private school in the area and explained the situation. The director received her within a few days and Ina\u00e9e was enrolled very quickly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
At D + 1 year: Ina\u00e9e is still in the new school, she is class representative and she is happy with her classmates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The procedures are underway.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Il \u00e9tait une fois, une petite fille, Ina\u00e9e, en classe de 6\u00e8me victime de harc\u00e8lement scolaire. Un gar\u00e7on de sa classe, Eric, avait d\u00e9cid\u00e9 qu’ils \u00e9taient \u00ab\u00a0en couple\u00a0\u00bb et r\u00e9pandait des rumeurs sur de pr\u00e9tendues \u00ab\u00a0performances sexuelles\u00a0\u00bb d’Ina\u00e9e . Toute la classe se moquait d’elle. Ana\u00efs en parla \u00e0 sa m\u00e8re qui le signala \u00e0 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[31,30,22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2516","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-droits-des-enfants","category-enfant-en-danger","category-violences"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cdumesnil.com\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2516","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cdumesnil.com\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cdumesnil.com\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cdumesnil.com\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cdumesnil.com\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2516"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/cdumesnil.com\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2516\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2517,"href":"https:\/\/cdumesnil.com\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2516\/revisions\/2517"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cdumesnil.com\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2516"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cdumesnil.com\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2516"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cdumesnil.com\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2516"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}